1 Samuel 25
Leaders Prep Section
Watch this video, read these notes, and send the pre-written email (below) to your group 2-3 days before you meet.
Notes
God is providing the ground level support…all David has to do is focus on doing the right thing.
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Context of scripture
David had the ability to kill Saul, but spared his life. In a completely unpredictable scene, David kept his allegiance to God and as a result, won the respect of his men, Saul, and even Saul’s men. David is God’s model of a man and a leader. The rest of the nation, starting with a beautiful woman, is about to come to the same conclusion.
Read 1 Samuel 25: 1-9
Raiding parties were common throughout this time in history. It was dangerous business to have men and livestock throughout the region, unprotected.
David’s and his 600 men, by their very nature as leaders, established a dominance and protective environment allowing people nearby to live in peace and prosper. Their mere presence created a strength that defended others.
Do you remember a time when you were around a large group of men that you considered strong and capable? How did that make you feel?
Notice David is not making a demand, rather asking another man for reciprocation. In other words, David, who provides for others, is asking another kind of leader to provide for his men in return.
Read 1 Samuel 25: 10-17
Does the rule of manhood require reciprocation or at least respectful acknowledgement?
Read 1 Samuel 25: 18-27
Abigail is riding completely alone towards 600 angry men. David and his men are set on killing every one.
What is the super-power of a truly gracious woman?
Read 1 Samuel 25: 28-35
Notice that, for the first time since going on the run, someone has sided with David. Everyone else sided with Saul and the status quo to protect their assets. Abigail was putting herself in danger both with her husband, his men, and even Saul. Like Rahab, Abigail was making an all or nothing bet.
What does a woman offer a man that balances him during a time of leadership…especially when he’s fighting for and defending others?
Read 1 Samuel 25: 36-44
This story will be retold over and over throughout the region, helping to sway public towards David. He is no longer a warrior. He is becoming king.
Do you think gaining any of this ground level support would have been possible without David going through this hardship?
Note to leader: Tell the group to read 1 Joshua 26 on their own.