1 Samuel 24
Leaders Prep Section
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Notes
Men follow men who fight for and defend others…even if they won’t do it themselves. It’s a characteristic built into men.
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Context of scripture
David has stayed true to the mission God gave him – fight for and defend others. Even while running for his life and being betrayed by his own countrymen, David has fought the Philistines and rescued others. He is about to see a small bit of payoff with huge implications.
Do you agree with this statement? Men follow men who fight for and defend others…even if they won’t do it themselves. It’s a characteristic built into men.
Read 1 Samuel 24: 1-7
Many people focus on the interaction between David and Saul. But here, the more interesting aspect is the interaction between David and his own men. If other men won’t trust you, you’re effectiveness is limited. Up to now, these men have followed David on the run, and reluctantly even into battle. They are not a trained army, they are just fighting men who have survived attacks, lost their families, or otherwise pushed to the social periphery. They are outlaws. They want some kind of payoff, even if it is just escaping and living free from oppression. Now, David has earned their ultimate respect. Consider for a moment how far these men would go to follow a man like David and how important that is for a future king.
What is something you have done that has earned you the most respect from other men? How closely does it align with fighting for and defending others?
Many men lead for their own profit and comfort. While both are obviously fine, do you respect men who primarily operate like that?
Read 1 Samuel 24: 8-22
Three critical things just happened. First, Saul admitted David is in the right and he is in the wrong. Second, David’s men heard it. Third, Saul’s men heard it. The balance of power has significantly shifted in the hearts and minds of the fighting men on both sides. These men on both sides have been raised on the stories of leaders who work on behalf of God like Moses, Joshua, and Gideon. Saul and David’s speech have told everyone who David really is.
Consider David’s leadership – his complete lack of personal ego, his unyielding drive, his sense of mission, and his willingness to fight for and defend others.
How would you compare David to your personal definition of the ideal churchy Christian man?
Which aspect of your own leadership would you like to improve upon?